Minority Women: “Not Your Exotic, Not Your Erotic”
February 27th, 2009 by insighter
Often we see how the minority (especially foreign) women are objectified to become sexual fantasizes, the “other” woman, the one from a far away land - that one who can stay far away when it comes to making commitments.
Judging by the messages I see in the mainstream media, ‘colored’ women seem to be mostly viewed as sexual objects - rarely good enough to be taken seriously. Our culture has been making more effort to portray them as sexy and ignorant and not as smart or worthy.
Hopefully with Obama and Michelle in the white house many of these mainstream social diseases will get treatment.
Sisters, don’t waste your time with men who “seduce themselves with your otherness”. The man who is worth your time is the man who can see and is interested in your realness.